Need PHP, OSdate, Or custom dating site developer/designer

We are looking for an experienced PHP,CakePHP, MVC ,ActiveR, etc coder to do one or all of the following: (i) make us a custom dating site using any combination of the following as a reference in terms of site design and internal navigation, including all bells and whistles (chat, forums, blogs, social networking, GUI) and perhaps using framework and CMS of OSDATE (without actually using OSDATE since its buggy and not too scalable) *[login to view URL] (internal navigation) *[login to view URL] (gui awesome and navigation awesome) *[login to view URL] *[login to view URL] *[login to view URL] (interesting gui to get to payment methods) *[login to view URL] (social media integration is awesome) *[login to view URL] ( I like their quick I am " "sign up sheet) but little else. payment methods for credits okay *[login to view URL] (iii) have the site be fully integrate able within social media sites similar to what zoosk did, but take a step further and have it be integrateable as custom app within all large social media sites (myspace, highfive, orkut, [login to view URL]) including anonymous integration if we have adult content as well as a way to integrate profiles with easy posting to craigslist, backpage, oodle, etc (iv) have an easy to use CMS which would allow for seamless uploads and management (if needed) of adspace, ecommerce, etc as well as option where site will initially be free but will have upgrade Please email us in detail 1. which of the technology above you will use explain why you would use it including why the back end could be able to handle a heavy server load without crashing if we eventually get up to millions of members 2. What kind of experience you have with both dating sites as well as facebook apps in terms of creating integrated sites for facebook like zoosk .com as well as the possibilities of integrating apps for other social networks and please describe which ones can be created like a facebook app, Make sure you actually log into [login to view URL] and find the appropriate links on facebook to see what we are talking about 3. Cost per site or template theme and time to complete. Please do not send us quotes per hour but rather a firm project price. Please be local to Chicago area. Out of town or India bids will be deleted